How Costs Actually Scale (Spoiler: It's Fucked)
Vector databases don't scale like normal databases. They're expensive and finicky.
You start with Pinecone because it "just works." Around 70 bucks a month for a million vectors. Product team is happy, search works fine, nobody cares about cost optimization yet. This lasts maybe 6 months if you're lucky.
Then your app gets popular and everything goes to hell. Vector count hits 10 million. Pinecone bill jumps to like $500/month or something. Finance starts asking questions you can't answer, like "what the fuck is a compute unit?"
Your monthly Pinecone bill hits $3,000. The PM asks why search is "so expensive" compared to PostgreSQL. You try explaining HNSW indexes and get blank stares. Look, normal databases are simple - you write SQL, you get results. Vector databases are fucking weird - you deal with embedding dimensions, HNSW parameters, and index rebuilds that crash for mysterious reasons.
You consider alternatives:
- Weaviate: Cheaper but you need to manage it yourself
- Qdrant: Even cheaper but configuration is a nightmare
- pgvector: Free but performance is shit for your use case
You stick with Pinecone because switching would take 3 months and the CEO wants features, not cost optimization.
Then some big enterprise customer signs and wants SOC2. Security team loses their minds because vectors contain customer data and there's no easy way to delete them - vector databases fucking suck at GDPR.
Now you need:
- Dedicated Pinecone environment: $25K/year minimum
- SOC2 audit: $30K plus 200 hours of engineer time
- Platform engineer who understands vector databases: $160K salary
- Monitoring because Pinecone's observability is garbage: Another $500/month
Your "simple search feature" now costs like 200K a year to run properly. Maybe more, depending on how badly things break.
The Shit Nobody Warns You About
Vector Databases Are High Maintenance
Unlike PostgreSQL which you can mostly ignore, vector databases need constant babysitting. Index rebuilds fail silently. Memory usage spikes randomly. Query performance degrades for mysterious reasons.
Pinecone updates break shit randomly. Had queries that worked fine for months suddenly start failing with dimension mismatch errors after some backend change. Their support's first suggestion is always "rebuild your index" which takes forever and costs a fortune in compute credits.
You'll spend weekends debugging why search results suddenly got shitty. Your on-call engineer will get paged because "vector similarity scores look wrong" (spoiler: they're probably fine, but good luck explaining cosine similarity to a panicking PM at 3am).
Operational Reality:
- Index rebuilds take forever - like 4+ hours for big datasets - and fail way too often. HNSW index construction crashes when you hit memory limits
- Memory usage is impossible to predict - budget 3x what vendors tell you. Even with generous provisioning, you'll hit OOM errors
- Query latency spikes randomly when indexes reorganize themselves. P99 latency can jump to 2+ seconds during background operations
- Backups are expensive because vector data doesn't compress worth shit. A 500GB vector index compresses to maybe 420GB with gzip
The Hiring Problem
You can't hire "vector database engineers" - they don't exist yet. You hire someone who knows databases and hope they can figure out HNSW index parameters and why your recall@10 scores keep dropping.
Most database people don't understand machine learning. Most ML people don't understand production databases. The overlap is tiny and expensive.
Compliance is a Nightmare
GDPR means you need to delete specific vectors. But vectors don't have IDs that map cleanly to user data. You end up rebuilding entire indexes to remove data, which takes hours and costs thousands.
SOC2 auditors are clueless about how embeddings work. You try explaining that embeddings are derived from user content but aren't the content itself. They still don't get it. You end up implementing expensive logging to track every vector operation just to make them happy.
What This Actually Costs
First year: You'll spend maybe 20-25K total. Database is cheap, no compliance overhead, one engineer handling everything. This won't last.
Second year: Costs jump to somewhere between 120K and 250K. You need monitoring, dedicated platform resources, and your first SOC2 audit. Vendor costs are maybe 30-40% of total spend.
Third year and beyond: Budget at least 300K annually, could easily be 450K+ depending on how badly things break. Vendor costs level off but operational overhead keeps growing. You end up with specialized teams because vector databases are too weird for regular ops people.
The companies that don't plan for this operational complexity usually switch to less accurate but cheaper solutions. Or they raise more money and pretend the unit economics work.
Anyway, which vendor should you choose for this expensive journey? Here's who's going to screw you the least...