Enterprise ecommerce implementations are budget killers. Industry reports show 80%+ go over budget. They take longer than promised. And there are always "surprise" costs that nobody mentions during the sales process.
OK, here's what really happens (spoiler: it's expensive)
Platform fees are just the beginning. Shopify Plus starts at $2,300/month if you sign a 3-year deal upfront (check their pricing page for current rates). But here's what they don't tell you: you'll hit their revenue cap at $800k/month and start paying 0.25% on everything above that. For a $5M/year business, that's an extra $84k annually they forgot to mention.
BigCommerce Enterprise plays the "custom pricing" game, which means you're negotiating blind. Based on publicly reported deals, expect $40k-$100k annually depending on your revenue. The good news? No transaction fees. The bad news? Their sales process drags on forever.
Adobe Commerce pricing is where things get really fun. They've got GMV tiers that start reasonable ($22k for <$1M GMV) but jump fast ($125k for $25M+ GMV). Plus cloud hosting fees. Plus professional services that will eat your entire budget.
Implementation costs will murder your budget. That $100k implementation quote? Double it. Industry data shows 85% of enterprise implementations exceed initial budgets. Data migration breaks everything. Custom integrations take 3x longer than estimated. And scope creep is guaranteed because you'll discover requirements you didn't know you had.
Apps and extensions are subscription hell. Shopify Plus merchants get destroyed by app costs. Typical setups hit $2,800/month just for Klaviyo, ReCharge, and Gorgias - before you get to all the other crap you need. Companies routinely pay $4k+/month in apps alone. It adds up fast and there's no escaping it.
Payment processing is where they really get you. Stripe charges 2.9% + 30ยข per transaction as a baseline (check their current rates). For high-volume merchants, you might negotiate down to 2.4-2.6%, but those fees compound. A $10M/year business pays something like $240k-$290k annually just in processing fees.
What's happening right now:
Adobe's push to cloud-only has been brutal for existing customers. On-premise customers are getting forced onto cloud plans that cost 2-3x more than their old licenses. Recent client situation I saw - their on-premise license costs roughly tripled when they got pushed to cloud with zero warning.
BigCommerce's zero transaction fees are their only real differentiator. But don't get too excited - they make up for it with higher platform fees and limited customization options. If you need anything beyond their templates, you're hiring developers at $150-$300/hour.
Shopify Plus app dependency is real vendor lock-in. Once you're 20+ apps deep into their ecosystem, migration becomes impossibly expensive. They know this. It's intentional. Every app integration is another chain binding you to their platform. Apps break when Shopify updates APIs. Version conflicts between apps cause random failures. Customer support points fingers between app developers when shit breaks.
Implementation always costs more, takes longer, and needs more ongoing maintenance than promised. Project cost overruns of 200-300% are common. Professional services firms lowball initial estimates to win deals, then hit you with change orders once you're committed. Budget 3x your initial quote and you might come close to the actual total.
Pick your poison based on what kind of pain you can handle. Shopify Plus is easiest but gets expensive fast. BigCommerce Enterprise is the middle ground - decent features without the app hell. Adobe Commerce gives you unlimited customization in exchange for unlimited complexity and cost. They all suck in different ways.
I've seen Gartner's reports - they undersell the pain. Reddit's ecommerce threads are where you find the real horror stories. Hacker News CTOs don't sugarcoat this shit.